Ever had an experience when the bully in your school took your favorite pen? Or maybe like you have an arch nemesis at work and he excels in his work much better than you do? In dating, similar experiences occur, but the emotions are different. You will feel a significant amount of emotional pain being inflicted on you.
Elaboration about emotional pain is really difficult. For the men who had such related experiences will realize that actually in the dating arena, there are other people queuing in the same queue as you. Sometimes you don’t even have a chance to express yourself (with other love rivals ahead of you) and sometimes you only have a single chance to perform.
Personally, I never believed in the reason of queuing. The world of relationships is extremely competitive. This girl that you have been looking for has an angelic face and a voluptuous figure. Unfortunately, many other different men are going to think along the same lines as you. This is where all the complications begin.
Maybe you are going after a girl who is of such low profile that no guys are seeking, or well, she may have some characteristics which are probably unbearable or unsuitable for most men. If you are one of those guys who go after beautiful women with plenty of suitors after her, you have to first acknowledge that you might have fallen in love with a “Universal” type of women. Women in the “Universal” category are like luxurious products (comparable to expensive cars, private jets and private yachts) to guys. Every guy will want to have a go for them if they ever have the slightest chance of succeeding.
You have to view her preferences as of utmost importance in this case. This is the only way to make yourself stand out among the various competitors who are going after the same girl as you.